If you are driven into your choice of career by a fear of poverty I ask you to stop for a moment and consider the ramifications to your potential success of harboring this emotion inside you. Behind all fears is the belief that that which is feared can potentially happen. It has also been said that what you believe ultimately becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. In this case the belief in and fear of poverty predisposes you to this fate. Let’s have a look at why this is and what can be done about it.

A fear of poverty is in most cases based on some early traumatic experience of having been poor or exposed to deprivation of some kind. Often this occurs in one’s family of origin or may come about during one’s life as a result of an unfortunate financial crisis. Such experiences become stored in the mind and body as negative pre-programmed experiences that are associated with all their ensuing negative emotions i.e. fear of it happening again, sadness, anxiety, feelings of insecurity, feeling out of control of one’s future etc.

Remember Patch Adams, the medical student that failed his medical board exams? After suffering from months of melancholy and depression he voluntarily sought medical treatment in a psychiatric ward. Through his hospital stay he came to find ways of treating his own ailment and in turn found the conviction to remain true to his dream of becoming a doctor. With a positive attitude he came to achieve success. Through his journey of personal development, he rose above all obstacles, became a better person and enriched the lives of those around him.

So, success and self-improvement are two sides of the same coin. Friends, do make a start with towards both with these tips.

“Stop thinking yourself as failures. You are only human. Accept your failures and move on to make yourself acceptable to others.”

“When you see someone far superior to yourself, instead of indulging in self-pity, think of self-improvement. Think of acquiring inner beauty instead of only a good physique.”

“When you meet people feeling low and down, reach down to pull them up. Don’t slip down yourself in order to sympathize with them.”

“This whole world is a huge school where you learn from your mistakes and move on. A failure in a science quiz should never make you feel doomed and stupid. It’s not the end of the world. Always give scope for self-improvement.”

“Try improving yourself in things one thing by one. You can’t turn yourself into a perfect person at the crack of a whip. Give yourself time.”

“Self improvement leads to personality development, inner contentment, self-confidence and self-esteem. The natural outcome is Success.”

“Break your goals into small achievable and meaningful parts. Don’t expect dramatic results. Remember that each small achievement at self-improvement leads to a better YOU.”

“Little do we realize that our small appreciations or sincere greetings set up pleasant chain-reactions in other people’s lives that are so important to them. When we appreciate the beautiful people and things around us, we ourselves don a little of that beauty in others’ eyes.”

“When you feel the positive effects of self-improvement and change, you are eager for your friends to try self-improvement too. But remember never to force anyone to follow you. It takes all kinds to make the world and in all probability, your friends will resent it.”

Over-night success is just a myth. This life we go through is a big school. It is important to appreciate what we have. We all have our own lessons to learn. When we are ready to learn from life’s experiences and our interactions with the people around us, we are well on the way to self-improvement and success

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