Self Help - The Wisdom Of Motivation
Motivation is a key to living a good life. With motivation, we can take on difficult tasks and get things done. Without motivation, we can be doomed to a life full of abandoned projects and unfulfilled dreams. You can get more Wisdom Insights here.
The more we understand about motivation, the better off we will be in life. If we want to start exercising to keep in shape, or give up smoking for better health, motivation is a key factor in our success or failure.
So here’s some important wisdom about motivation. When you boil it all down, it comes in just two forms. Positive and negative.
We all know about negative motivation. If you don’t take out the trash, it will start to smell. So we take out the trash to avoid the negative consequence of a smelly house. If we don’t go to work we’ll lose our job, and then we can’t pay the rent and then we are homeless. The negative consequences motivate us to go to work. You can learn some more Self Help Insights here.
That is negative motivation. We were raised with it. It is the threat of something bad happening to us that gets us to act. There is nothing wrong with negative motivation. It can help us give up smoking. Picturing clearly the lung damage we get from every cigarette can negatively motivate us to curb our intake. However, negative motivation is de-energizing. Sure, we’ll go to work, but we’ll drag ourselves in and be miserable.
Positive motivation is the opposite of negative. Instead of trying to avoid a negative consequence, we are trying to accomplish a positive outcome. That changes everything. You may, for example, hate to get up at 4am to go to work. You grumble all the way in. But what if you are going to Hawaii and need to get up at 4am to catch your flight? You will hop out of bed humming a happy tune. You are positively motivated and energized by the result you are after.
The thing is, you can start to practice being positively motivated as much as you want in life. Just think of the positive result you are after from an exercise program for a few minutes. Then see if that doesn’t start filling you with the desire to get started.
Taking action is the key. You can take negative action, grumbling and groaning all the way, or positive action, with a spring in your step. It’s up to you. Try more positive motivation, focusing on the good outcome or fun parts of any task, and see if it doesn’t help you take more positive action. You can get more Personal Growth Tips here.



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