The Strangest Secret

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Advisor , writes… …

Many people carry over trust issues from past relationships, or even childhood events and traumas. The strong emotions from these memories can be a real player in our ability to attract and keep a lasting loving relationship. That was certainly true in my case, and I wasn’t able to free myself from previous emotional rackets until I got help from a Life Coach. The first step is to cover exactly what story you have in place that’s preventing you from truly living and then clear it out.

Do some journal work and answer these questions:

What happened in my past experience and did I make it mean something it did not actually have to?

What is the most pervasive emotion I feel concerning this event?

What is the most recent occurrence I can remember when a similar incident occurred, or felt similar emotions?

Pay mind to how this conclusion or judgement you came to about the earliest incident is a way of being that has you reacting to any similar situation.

When the problem is trust, it’s often from an earlier experience and there’s a firmly sustained belief about your safety in a relationship or in general. Most likely, this previous relationship wasn’t the first occurrence you have experienced trusting problems. What you believe and feel and what shows up in your life experience is continuously a vibrational match. Learning how to self coach with law of attraction transformational tools and techniques assists you in understanding what beliefs you hold that operate as a fixed feeling. There’s no room for growth or expansion when you contain a belief that’s solidified in your mind. You can break free from emotional barriers inhibiting a love relationship by getting help from a Life Coach for Relationships.

Beliefs are simply thoughts that you, your culture, and everyone around you, continue thinking. Thoughts, thought upon for a continuous amount of time change into thought form. Thought forms turn into actual life experience when you, or peers in your life, continue conjuring it up. You view it “out there” as evidence to justify your feelings or beliefs. After a while these thought forms become part of your life experience.

Ultimately it is what you do with the belief and the judgement that goes alongside it, and the interpretation of what you believe is good or bad about what you’re viewing or thinking. The interpretation changes the thought into an emotion that feels good or feels bad. This feeling is what transfers to the Universe that then creates the essence of it and the emotional level is matched back in your life experience.

When you have freed up increased positive expectation, begin to cultivate a positive mindset for what is capable in a relationship. Let your imagination assist you. Spend time imagining yourself with a perfect love. You like going for walks together. You are holding hands and he laughs at your silly jokes. Your mind is an amazing asset and your thoughts combined with heartfelt emotion turn your thoughts into magnets. If you are suffering from a difficult divorce, find a Life Coach for Relationships after Divorce. If you will practice these tools you’ll realize you’ll not just trust again, but attract the most loving, trustworthy people into your life in all areas.

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