The Strangest Secret

Nanette Geiger, Relationship Specialist , writes… …

A common concern for friends of mine is their assumption that you have to drop 50 pounds and be financially independent before they can create long-standing love. This is of course a myth. This is just low self-esteem blocking you from being truly whole.

It is great to want to look your best, be your best, have high self-esteem and feel good about your money situation. It feels really good to feel stable, confident, and attractive.

There are a HUGE amount of corporations that feed on peoples’ low sense of self-image. At some time or other, we’ve all fallen prey to buying that new exercise machine that promises to make it simple for us to tone up, slim down and have a beautiful body. Supplements, special diets or dieting plans, products for our hair, skin, teeth, libido, you name it! And these messages are all aimed at one basic idea – that we are not actually OK the way we come.

We are so used to this kind of thinking that we never even realize [what is. It’s no surprise that we do this. After all, when we arrive here, on the first day of our life, we’re admired and perfect – mostly. Then soon we are compared to how the previous sibling evolved, at what time they developed this ability, sitting up, crawling, language, and so on. Our hair, our bodies and how they are similar or dissimilar to the other one or that. “Oh, she looks just like Aunt Mary when she was that age.” You know the drill.

Start by examining your early beliefs and emotions about your body. Most people don’t actually understand that they have persisting limiting vibrations or emotions from these early experiences. Negative emotion, whether pervading or subtle, doesn’t feel good and many of us just teach ourselves to bury it, deal with it, or push it farther into the underbelly of your mind. These intense emotional experiences usually stay buried. We’ve all used the term “emotional baggage.” We walk around with old unresolved, paining, hard to deal with feelings still held somewhere inside of us. Those emotions emanate to the Universe to mirror back more of the same. You can free yourself by improving your self-esteem.

Begin to change your relationship with your body by creating a list of what you like about you. What really harmonizes with yourself? What can you appreciate about your appearance? Think of 5 things each day that you truly love about your body. Do you like your senses? Are you thankful for functioning fingers? Make a list of the positive aspects about you and view your energy and vibrational point of attraction begin to soar. You CAN improve your self-esteem and attract love.

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