The Strangest Secret

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Coach , writes… …

Maybe you have been told about the ‘Bucket of Crab’ mindset. You know the sort of thinking that says “if I can’t have something, you can’t either.” This mindset is a form of negating another person’s success by pulling them down to their inadequacy. It often is shown by a colleague or family member who doesn’t approve of or doesn’t want you reaching for a higher achievement or stretching beyond that which is usually the norm for the culture. Everyone’s been there.

It’s similar in a tribal mentality. The tribe is meant to help each other and keep the culture safe and thriving. Every member has a clearly defined and very valuable role and function. If you desired to reach beyond (as is our nature as human beings) you actually risked the safety of the tribe. You’re taught: “I can’t go beyond what my tribe needs of me, that would mean I’d be ostracised and suffer certain death”. You’d be exiled without food or water and without another tribe for hundreds of miles.

However, you were designed to create. Your very nature is to expand, express, desire, and manifest. Then go for another fun thing or dream to reach. I read that before a child reaches 5 years of age, they have heard the word ‘No’ over 60,000 times! It would seem that our nature and our culture are conflicted with each other.

It is no wonder conflicting belief constructs, critiquing mental monologue and fear of success bring us down from time to time. It has been stamped into our subconscious. The psychological phenomena is called cognitive dissonance. It is like static from your head when you hold two conflicting thoughts at the same time. This dissonance becomes uncomfortable and desires a solution. It gets resolved in one of two methods. Either by falling back on old, known beliefs, or by allowing yourself to let go of the old to reach for a better place mentally. A Law of Attraction Coach can help you completely change your outlook with great life coaching.

It is a small wonder with the programming we’ve inherited that it can be so difficult to make any lasting change. You see, it’s not your fault. Don’t blame yourself and pile more negativity on yourself. You’re not to blame. Law of Attraction Relationships are supremely rewarding and fulfilling beyond your wildest dreams! Imagine someone who is everything you have ever desired in a partner.

It’s not your fault, but it is your responsibility to grab your power back. You have the ability to decide who you are and command that. Your mind is attractive. And even more intensely, your mental monologue coupled with emotion are creative and attractive. Stare the limiting programs in the face and boldly choose another possibility for yourself. You are meant to thrive and create. You have the confirmation by the Universe. Relationship Attraction has never been more powerful with the discovery of the Law of Attraction.

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