Have you recently broke up and you’ve reached the conclusion you can’t live without her? If you’re wanting to learn how to win her back then my advice is take control with psychological tactics. I dare say some of your friends may look down on you using these tactics but they don’t count. What does count is you getting her back.

You don’t actively notice it but psychological mind games are in use every day. Not just our partners and friends, but employers and even the government are at it. Employers use these tactics with employee of the month. Production is way up as everyone battles to win the shiny plaque.

Sneakily get her to return your call
Most of us like to receive letters through the post, as long as they aren’t demands for payment that is! You send her a handwritten note. You tell her how good things are for you right now and that you would like to thank her.

This note she received will raise her curiosity levels and also a bit of pride will kick in. She gets curios about the “thank you” bit, but then the pride takes over when she thinks she must have done something good. She cannot resist calling you to find out why you thanked her. You say thank you for (the breakup) making you realise it was the right thing.

The real reason you sent the letter is to get her to contact you. Play your cards right here and she will forever think she got back in touch with you. See, you never once in the letter asked her to call you. The fact is the letter weaved its magic and she did as expected, she called you back.

You can get hold of the exact letter to send later. I’ll show you where. And some other tricks like this.

Play on her good memories
You can use her favourite things to further your quest to win her back. You can use her favourite food, or smell. Or even her fav song.

Say she calls you (after she got your letter), you can have her fav song on in the background just loud enough that she hears it. In the back of her mind when she thinks of that song she thinks of the most recent time she heard it, that was on the phone to you. Linking her fav song with you then transfers some of the good stuff she feels about the song to you.

Jealous curiosity
If you can arrange a night out with a few friends, be seen to be having fun. Also make sure that your ex finds out just what a good time you had.

As long as you aren’t dating another girl, she would be livid at this, you can make your ex just a little bit jealous at missing out on the fun. She will expect you to be still mourning her but here she finds you out & about enjoying yourself. This can work by making her feel she should be part of the fun.

There you have three little psychological tricks to help you to win her back. Other may look on them as wrong, but they aren’t going to do any lasting harm. They are quite simple and harmless. But you can’t just jump in and use these tactics without an overall plan.

What you really need is to use them as part of the total game plan to win her back. Without a decent system to follow chances are you will just screw the whole job up.

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