Being Positive is an outlook in life in which using positive words and positive phrases, and thinking daily positive thoughts become the habit, priority and the guiding philosophy in one’s life.

Why be positive?

It is simply better than the alternative. As Churchill said, “For myself, I am an optimist - it does not seem to be much use being anything else.”

It is important, however, to realize that a positive mental attitude is not meant to be a cure-all for all our troubles. But, here is where it scores:

Try to observe the glaring difference, and try to do some positive self talk exercises, if you haven’t yet. Here now are some of the common examples of positive self talk. Okay for instance, when optimistic or positive people try to explain bad stuff or situations, they externalize them-”the traffic caused it”, view them as separated-”that portion of the diet did not work, but…”, and think of them as just temporary-”that was a difficult day”.

But it is better not to change your basic traits. You are accepted for these, and every person is different from the other. Hence the emphasis on not copying other traits. But you can learn that same skill and be able to use it in your own way. If the person you want to emulate is very outgoing, you could try to be a little more open and quiet in opening up with a stranger, and not be as boisterous as the person whom you were trying to emulate.

Positive thoughts can be replace the negative ones that you have. You have to work for it. It’s not easy. You are not a chameleon who can change his colors depending upon the circumstances. If you were so, you would find yourself out on the streets, not having a social or even an official life because of the inability to stay within your character and not changing it due to circumstances. You are not a boot licker, and you should stay that way.

There are other traits that you can modify. If you are shy, you could try saying good morning to those whom you meet, quietly, and should not feel uneasy if you get strange looks the first time you do it. After all, they are not used to it! Over time, they would wonder and accept that you are changing. Change, slowly, is the catch here.

You can change for the better. Don’t change for the worse.

Always weigh your options. Don’t change for the sake of change. Change for the better, and repeated again is the fact that the change should be within the basic tenets of your character. Otherwise, you would land in a quandary later, because your inner conscience would question you and trouble you. And that would put paid to your mental happiness, which is paramount. Got it? Good. Go ahead and learn

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